To create, manifest, the life you want try matching the frequency of the thing you want to manifest before you have it. You have to align yourself through your energy and expectations with what you desire in your life and then you attract it. It’s not up to you to force anything, just align yourself with what you want to manifest by expecting it, feeling it, then let go and allow it to happen and let the universe bring it to you. Expect it to come to you and know it will come to you at the right time. Our everyday expectations create our reality; also expect the things you want in your life as real and they will become real in time. Shift your energy and change your expectations and this will bring in what you want in life. What you expect is what you attract. Write down, I am certain that I have and then fill in the blank, I am certain it is mine. Always write in the present tense. Then sit in the feeling and energy of being certain it is yours as long as you want or until it is real to you and any resistance is gone. If it is a loving personal relationship, be in that vibration by loving nature, loving people and animals in your life, especially loving yourself! If it is money and abundance you want more of then be grateful for the abundance already in your life. Be grateful for the abundance of food you have, or the home you’re in; be grateful for the abundance of nature, etc. Einstein wrote “Everything is energy and that’s all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy, this is physics”. Work on affirmations, listening to helpful YouTube frequencies, journal; these practices help attract what you desire to bring into your life. To learn more about attracting what you want in your life check out the videos on YouTube on the laws of attraction and manifesting.